Falling or even removing yourself from the A-list can be life altering. We're talkin' about someone whom you love and an error in judgment that turns out to facilitate a needed transition. But the reality of off-A-list living keeps posing the question of "was it essential (frequent answer:yes) or a tragic mistake (not tragic)?" The need to not be in the way is another person's "don't bother me" but here's the lowdown: Being off her A-list means you make your own A-list consisting of you and the one person you want & need to spend as much time with as you have remaining here and that's the story of, that's the glory of love. Kathy Bates and her sad kids wasn't a good start today - kind of a buzzkill. Bunny & the Bull erased the bummed out feeling. Tomorrow the reunion begins, the one that has been a lifetime in duration. Imbibe and bible both are bib words - wine is a balancer.